How does watching porn help your sex life

 

Back in the VHS era we had a tape with DP scenes. They were my wife's favorite, and it inspired us to go and find a fuck buddy for threesomes. We done numerous DVP sessions. Ah sweet memories.

 

When I was young it was primarily my sex education when it came to how-to. School taught me the biology, my parents just said wear a condom, but the internet was my main source for how to actually go about putting tab A into slot B. Gave me and my first sex partner lots of ideas and new things to try. It was fun pushing each other's boundaries.

Now? I dunno. My girlfriend's sex drive is way lower than mine and porn gives me sexual release without bugging her all the time.

 

I do not think watching porn helps or hurts my sex life with a partner. I think that is the question. Porn is part of my sexy life. I watch it to provide additional stimulation when masturbating. I do that a lot. That affects my sex life a bit.

 

While I was always a big fan of porn, I slowly introduced my wife to porn.

Funny when we first got married we accidentally were getting an adult cable channel it was very softporn. They didn’t show penetration or cum shots but that was perfect to introduce to my wife.
She couldn’t get over it, she thought it was silly and funny as some themes were.

We both happen to like things of nostalgia.
Museums, Antiques, old classic movies,
Even some silent movies had some charm about them. So I came across a VHS of old fashion porn, some as far back as the 20s.
Again it seemed it was more her curiosity that made her watch than horniness.

Well that got her feet wet. Later I purchased some of those Sexually Guide Videos for couples they used to advertise in back of some non-porn magazines.
She was ok with it as to keep our relationship a bit more fun.
Well once she opened the door to it, I kicked the door open.

We didn’t always watch it. But in more recent years it’s been a nice part of our foreplay ritual.

 

So how has it help my sex life?

The short answer, it just makes things more exciting!!! I believe to some degree it helped my open up a little more ( no pun intended) Not that she’s a prude but there was a time I never thought she’d go for it.

Once we came across a scene where the woman was using a pump. And even a scene where a couple was using a pump.
Made her curious, eventually I bought one into the bedroom and we tried it.

 

Not that she thought I was an angel, but there was a time I kept a lot of my porn interest from her.
It was great to share. Much more fun to watch porn with her than without.

We’re both pretty vanilla on our taste. She actually will masturbate in front of me where there was a time she didn’t feel comfortable doing that.

I remember back in the day when masturbation was very private
Now here we both are pleasing our selves together watching porn. One we start our sex the porn just becomes a nite lite in the background.

 

I used to go buy porn but the problem with that is, besides the cost, you didn’t always know what you were getting the you get home and you’re fast forwarding a lot of stuff. Not that it was all bad, but had to settle for that one theme.

Now with the advance tech age we live in
We can mix things up. Variety makes it nice. Sometimes amateur sometimes professional, the variety keeps it fresh.

We rather watch several 5 minute clips than 1 long scene of repetitive positions of the same couple.

We primarily like to see couples around our age bracket. And don’t mind some maturer. More power to the older couples still going at it.

 

( I know I’m beating this thread to death, forgive me but...)

Another good thing is when we watch some mature amateur porn, it’s nice to see imperfect bodies for a change. I believe that helps my wife feel less self conscious about her own body.

 

Yeah, it can get the motor running, but then blowing in my ear gets my motor running!

 

Makes wife horny and wet. Good fucking after we are done watching.

 

Porn can be exciting but i would not say it is a teaching device. Porn can make you think you need sex acts in your life you really never needed. Lol porn can make you think sex really goes like it does in porn. There are certain porn movies i really should had made it a requirement that some of my past parners watch and take notes from. It always confused me how many guys watch porn from a young age and never learn how to truly please a lady. They clearly just watched it to cum!!!

 

Gets horny y'all talking about mmm

 

Porn is mostly garbage. I get no real world benefit from porn. That's why I prefer animated monster and fantasy sites. Fallout4, resident evil, Samus Aran, SFM (26REGIONSFM) (pornhub) Rule 34 gamer sex porn,etc. I also like women with k9, older -younger. anything but boring, mainstream porn

 

Watching porn isn't that important to me when having sex with others (although it can make masturbation better.) But. having a camera rolling when having sex can add to the fun. Even if you don't intend to upload it, the idea that others might get off to you is erotic.

 

Porn is made almost exclusively for men. The idea being that women are not nearly as visually stimulated. Sometimes straight porn can come off looking borderline violent if not entirely. Can anyone suggest the type that women are more likely to respond to?

 

We women are all different. i for instance like a lot of the same kind of porn that men do, but not the violent or really rough stuff! However, if it were me and one or two female friends together we would put on something softer, more romantic with really good looking guys instead of just a big dick! He would make love to them, not just fuck them silly, kiss them, their ears, necks, backs, legs .... you get the idea!

 

Porn doesn't really make for good sex ,in my eyes! But I do believe it can enhance your sex. I think it's much better when I see my wife's reactions and knowing how she feels, before I suddenly just pull out and start glazing her face.

 

I dont like watching porn during sex, distracting, I dont multi task well, one thing or the other

 

It doesn’t